06 May 2008

Divorce The Great Taboo

Divorce The Great Taboo

The statistics speak now unequivocal. More and more marriages end in disaster, and many are the adventurous dream never realized. It is impossible to ignore the fact that a lifelong marriage is more a rarity than a habit in our day. There are many explanations of why things are going, as it is today. Some say the fast-changing world is to blame. Some believe that the older generations fought more, and did not give up so easily, and no one questions the foundation of marriage, whether it really is man that privilege and possible, to live with only one partner over a lifetime. And although many of these problems certainly come into play, it is often very small things that determine whether a marriage consists of tomorrow test. All conditions tend to start to turn sparks, not of problems but of pure love. Love is a wonderful time, and we enjoy it all together. Evil tongues often say that this is just a disease, but there are many who remain in a sort of infatuation throughout their relationship. There is also another side, and it is gloomier, and the matter is that things just do not keep in length. One of the major reasons is that you grow apart, and it can happen in many ways.

A unique event in every person's life is getting married, and marriage is often children, and they can upset both the men or woman's life and perception of itself and the outside world. For men, there is a very distinct shift in roles at a birth. From having been at the heart of the woman's attention in the relationship, the man moves a step down on the woman's par-heraki. It does not matter at first, then overwhelming inventory of the child in itself is enough, but in the longer term, the man to be lacking the attention he was accustomed to, and the woman can easily come to overlook him. Not that it always is the case, but it can happen. The same goes for the woman. She can easily be overlooked, and they need the man previously had more attention will not be satisfied in the same manner as before. The man may slowly lose interest in making the woman happy, and the little surprise in everyday life will be forgotten in the everyday stress that goes with it. And this is where it starts to go down hill, and glide path has gone. That is why it is important not to forget to pamper each other, and remember that the relationship is not only about your children, but just as much about you.